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The Seven Rivers Wedding and Marriage ministry exists
to assist prepared engaged couples for a lifelong marriage
that brings glory to God. We believe that God
has instituted the special relationship of marriage between
a man and a woman. We believe that the marriage relationship
is second only in importance to one's relationship with God
through Jesus Christ. We believe that the marriage ceremony
is a very special time of worship. We believe that God has
clearly communicated to us about his plan for marriage from
the Bible, the authoritative Word of God.
Wedding Information Guidelines
Seven
Rivers Presbyterian Church wants to help make your wedding
day one of the happiest and most sacred memories of your
life. It is our desire to serve you in every way that is
practical and in accordance with our total church program.
We have found it helpful to develop policies and
regulations, which will help your wedding run smoothly. We
suggest you read through these guidelines carefully and ask
any questions you may have.
I. Dates (Rehearsal & Wedding)
In
order for a couple to reserve a wedding date at the church
and have a Seven Rivers Pastor officiate at their wedding,
either the bride or the groom must be a member of Seven
Rivers Presbyterian Church.
Prior
to the wedding, couples must attend the Marriage Preparation
Class. This seven-week class is offered twice a year
beginning in February and September. When the class is
successfully completed, a meeting with the pastor should be
scheduled to plan the wedding. Contact
Linda Gangi, the wedding coordinator at the church
office, for class details.
Couples
are also required to attend two premarital counseling
sessions with Richard Greete and complete an online
"Prepare/Enrich Inventory.” There is a fee for this, which
is to be paid by the wedding couple to Richard Greete.
Details
After
carefully reading this wedding information policy, if you
wish to be married at Seven Rivers, please contact the
church office, 352.746.6200 or email
Linda Gangi, to schedule a meeting with a pastor. You
will be asked to fill out the
Preliminary Information Form in preparation for this
meeting. What should you expect to take place at this
meeting? Expect the pastor to ask you about your
relationship with Christ. Also expect him to ask you about
the relationship with your intended spouse. A firm
commitment from the church cannot be given until this
meeting has taken place.
Confirm
with the pastor his availability for the date you wish to be
married. Verify availability of the church facilities with
Linda Gangi. Once both have been confirmed, you will
need to fill out the
Wedding Facility Request Form and mail it to Seven
Rivers Presbyterian Church, 4221 W. Gulf to Lake Hwy,
Lecanto, FL 34461. It is recommended that you begin this
process at least six months before your wedding date.
If you
wish to be married by a non-Seven Rivers pastor, please
coordinate that through
Rev. Adam Jones
at the church office, 352.746.6200.
For
Sunday ceremonies, it takes some time for our maintenance
team to thoroughly clean the sanctuary and adjoining areas
after weekend worship. You may make use of the building
anytime after 12:30 p.m. and begin your wedding ceremony
anytime after 3:00 p.m. If after services maintenance does
not concern you, you may request an earlier ceremony time.
The building should also be reserved (usually the day or
evening before the wedding day) for the wedding rehearsal.
For
Saturday ceremonies, your wedding should begin no later than
1:00 p.m. All related wedding activity (including clean up)
must be completed no later than 3:00 p.m. It is the
responsibility of the wedding party to insure all
decorations are removed immediately following the ceremony.
It is important that the sanctuary be available to our
maintenance staff for cleaning and our worship department
for rehearsal at 3:00 p.m.
If you
are planning a wedding on any day other than Saturday or
Sunday, similar rules to these apply, but may be slightly
modified to accommodate the needs of both the church and
wedding party.
II. Rehearsal and Ceremony Guidelines
At
least four weeks before the wedding, you will need to
contact the officiating pastor to set up a time to meet with
him to discuss the format of the wedding ceremony. The
pastors have a standard outline for the order of worship for
the ceremony and will work with you to make sure your
wedding is a special one.
All
members of the wedding party will meet with the officiating
pastor in the sanctuary for a one-hour rehearsal, usually
the day before the wedding. Because of family and ministry
responsibilities, Seven Rivers’ pastors are sometimes unable
to attend rehearsal dinners and/or receptions. It is hoped
that such inability will not be taken as an offense, but if
you would like, please do invite the Pastor (and his spouse)
to attend.
You
should plan to have the entire wedding party at the church
at least one hour before the wedding ceremony. If you wish
to have live photography or have your wedding ceremony
filmed, the pastor will need to discuss appropriate
parameters before the wedding.
III. Reception
If you
would like to use the church facilities for your reception,
the gymnasium is often the best venue. The Florida Room is
also often available. On Saturday, a reception in the
Florida Room must end at 3:00 p.m. due to the need to
prepare the building for evening worship. The Florida Room
and lobby area may be available any other day as long as it
is not held at times that interfere with scheduled church or
school events.
Tables
and chairs will be provided to you upon request. It is your
responsibility to remove all decorations and take down the
tables and chairs immediately following the reception. You
may also reserve the kitchen to prepare your reception. Your
caterer should contact the church office at least two weeks
in advance and meet with the Church Administrator, Facility
Manager, or the Wedding Coordinator concerning:
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Certificate of insurance and signed release of
liability.
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The
time the Gym or Florida Room needs to be opened for food
preparation.
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Any
tables or other church equipment to be used.
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Time of arrival of food, storage of food, etc.
The
caterer will supply linens, plates, cups, silverware, and
serving pieces.
Standard church policy prohibits alcoholic beverages from
being served or consumed on the church and school premises
at any time. Smoking is also not permitted in any of the
church or school buildings.
For
rented items that cannot be picked up the day of the
wedding, prior arrangements should be made with the church
for storage. Seven Rivers is not responsible for missing or
broken rental items.
IV. Music, Sound & Lights
Once
your wedding date has been confirmed, a Sound & Light
Technician will be scheduled for your wedding through the
church office. Please make sure you discuss any special
sound and lighting needs for the wedding ceremony with the
wedding coordinator, Linda Gangi, two to three weeks
before the rehearsal. Pre-recorded videos to be shown during
the service must be given to the wedding coordinator one
week before the wedding.
The
grand piano and organ are available for your use; church
staff will help you if these items need to be moved from
their standard locations. Arrangements for musicians are to
be made by the wedding party and it is advised that you
secure these as far in advance as is possible.
V. Photographer
Please
inform your photographer that no flash pictures may be taken
during the ceremony. He or she should be asked to remember
the solemnity of the occasion and to refrain from attracting
attention to himself/herself by taking pictures from
conspicuous locations. Arrangements may be made before
and/or after the service for pictures to be taken.
VI. Taping the Service
Videotaping equipment may be used with natural lighting. If
you plan to have videotaping from the front of the sanctuary
during the ceremony, please discuss this with the
officiating pastor.
VII. Decorations
The
sanctuary is, by design, a place of beauty and dignity.
Therefore, decorations for the sanctuary should be kept
within the bounds of simplicity and good taste.
Baskets, candelabrum, aisle cloths, or a kneeling bench
should be furnished by the florist or other rental facility
and removed at the conclusion of the ceremony. Equipment may
be delivered Friday afternoon or Saturday morning. Please
make arrangements with the wedding coordinator. If equipment
cannot be picked up after the ceremony, please make sure the
church has the appropriate place to store these items. Seven
Rivers is not responsible for any missing or broken rental
items.
Decorations cannot be nailed, screwed, tacked, taped, or
wired to the walls, woodwork, or pews of the church. Rice,
confetti, birdseed, or similar materials may not be used
inside the church buildings. Decorations should be secured
to the pews with ribbon, or similar material.
The
florist must provide adequate mats or cloths to be placed
under the candle fixtures to protect the floor and woodwork.
Please use only drip-less candles.
Because
of fire regulations, please make sure exits are left free of
decorations.
The
church’s seasonal decorations (Christmas trees, banners
etc.) should not be moved or removed. Please consult the
wedding coordinator for details.
Choir
chairs should not be moved or removed from the choir loft.
All musical instruments and sound equipment will be moved to
the sides of the stage by church staff.
The
bride should advise the florist of these rules. For your
convenience, another copy of this decorations section
(entitled "Decorations
Policy") is attached for you to give to your florist.
VIII. Dressing Rooms
Dressing rooms are provided for the bride and her attendants
and for the groom and his attendants upon request. The
bridal and groomsmen dressing rooms are available two hours
before the ceremony. All personal items should be removed
from the dressing rooms after the wedding ceremony and
before the reception.
IX. Fees
Seven
Rivers does not charge members for use of our buildings;
however, in order to offset the additional costs for
utilities, the services of custodians, sound techs, and the
wedding coordinator, the following fees will be due from the
wedding couple sixty days prior to the wedding date. A Seven
Rivers employee will be on the premises during any wedding
preparation.
$250
Weddings Only
$350
Wedding and Florida Room Reception*
$550
Wedding and Florida Room/Lobby Reception*
$400
Wedding and Gymnasium Reception
*Restrictions see III. Reception.
Other
fees and arrangements made by the wedding party:
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Musicians
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Vocalists
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Seven Rivers Pastor's Honorarium
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Seven Rivers Wedding Planner (not the same as our staff
wedding coordinator)
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If
the church needs to be open more than two hours before
the ceremony, $20 an hour will be charged.
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Decorations and set-up may be done during church office
hours or in the two hours before the ceremony. After
hours, $20 an hour will be charged.
Seven
Rivers Church Office Hours:
Monday
thru Friday
8:30
a.m. to 5:00 p.m.
352.746.6200
In case
of cancellation, a full refund will be given.
Wedding Documents
Planning Your Wedding
at Seven Rivers
Preliminary Information Form
Facility Request
Form
Decorations Policy
Contact
Linda Gangi
at the church office with questions.
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